Introductions discussion

Hi all. My fiancée and I are just getting started with the chastity lifestyle. She is 26, and I am 25. We have been together for eight and a half years now and share a house we moved into last summer. After recently getting engaged, our wedding is set for 2018. We aren’t exactly vanilla; bondage is part of our regular sexual routine, as both of us show dominant and submissive traits, though she leans more toward the dominant side.

Trust was one big reason we decided to bring chastity into our lives. Using a device helps keep me in check regarding masturbation. We have agreed that when it comes to release, it should be under her control. Since having each other makes solo releases feel somewhat selfish, I saw a chastity cage as the perfect solution. Just last week, I picked up a Rubber Buckling Cock Cage Chastity Device.

Since then, we’ve been reading articles together about how to integrate this into our lives, looking at benefits, different styles, getting started, and potential issues. Last night was our first attempt at locking me in. To help calm my excitement while I was semi-erect, she talked about her job as I listened until I went flaccid. Once that happened, we secured the device on me for about four hours while we watched TV. She checked in occasionally to ensure I was comfortable and fine before bed when she unlocked me so we could check for any marks or bruises. Due to our work schedules, we plan to lock me up again next Saturday night.

The device is quite heavy, which pulled my testicles down a bit, and it wasn’t completely full inside. There was some occasional pinching, but not much. Now that we know plastic options exist, we might consider one in the future. She really enjoys seeing me locked up, and I liked being locked by her.

Thanks for reading.