Introductions discussion

Hi all, I’m brand new to this community, having stumbled upon it a few months back when I first entered the realm of male chastity. The purpose of my post is to share my personal “story” with you here, since sharing it with friends and family isn’t really an option. Let’s get started: To begin, I’m a 21-year-old guy. Female domination has always turned me on; I’ve had plenty of fantasies in that regard, though they rarely involved chastity or orgasm denial before now—I didn’t even know those concepts existed until I was introduced to them. About a year ago, I started looking for a woman who could “dominate” me, aiming to make my fantasies come true. After quite a while of trying, I finally found someone. However, she wasn’t seeking anything strictly sexual at the time. That’s when I realized that women often have different kinds of fantasies than men do, particularly within female domination because they hold the reins. We decided to meet about seven months ago; she is an independent 29-year-old woman who wanted someone willing to follow her instructions and handle most of the household tasks at her place. Initially, I was a bit let down, but since she mentioned our connection could grow, I gave it a shot in hopes that sexual elements would develop. Since then, I’ve been tidying up her apartment weekly under her command. At one point, she even handed me the keys so I could do the chores on my own. She also wanted me to only masturbate when permitted, essentially as a reward for cleaning. For the first month or so of our “relationship,” following this rule was fun, but eventually, temptation got the better of me and I stopped adhering strictly to it. I kept hoping she would add more layers to what we had. About three months ago, she asked if I’d been masturbating without her permission (though I think she suspected), and I admitted that I had. She then brought up chastity cages. After doing some research, I found this community. I was somewhat hesitant because the idea of having my orgasms restrained wasn’t exactly what I envisioned for our relationship’s progression. Still, since it was what she wanted—a core part of female domination—I bought one. She supported the decision, suggesting we take things slowly. When the cage arrived, I went to her place to put it on. It felt like a significant “sexual” milestone, so I was thrilled. Initially, she let me keep one key, but I barely used it and actually returned it to her within a week. Now that over two months have passed since my first locking experience, I’m very pleased with how things are going between us. I love knowing I can’t control when I climax, and she seems to enjoy having that power over me. Recently, we talked, and she revealed that when we met, she wasn’t single; she was just curious about trying something new. It appears she was a bit unsure at the start since it was her first time too, but now she’s really settling in. Things are accelerating, and we’re beginning to engage in more “sexual” activities. Here is my initial experience! Looking forward to your thoughts!