Introductions discussion

Hello everyone! I am completely new to this concept, but as my username suggests, I’m ready to give Chastity a go. To start with, let me explain how I got here. My wife is Sharon and we’ve been married for 20 years. Her best friend, Linda, shared that her husband Jim (who is an acquaintance of mine) introduced him to the concept of female-led marriage, which includes him wearing Chastity. According to Linda, there are plenty of pros and very few cons. Linda raved about how much improved their life has become; she claims it feels like they’re dating all over again! She controls whether AND when intimacy happens. Plus, Jim is no longer allowed to masturbate freely. This really caught Sharon’s attention. SHE absolutely hates that I masturbate and has made her feelings clear repeatedly, yet I keep doing it quite often. Sharon announced (newly for both of us) that we are shifting toward a Female Led Marriage model. She wants me fitted into a Chastity device ASAP. I’d prefer not to have the chat with Fred about this myself; Sharon noted that Linda mentioned this forum—Fred used to be active here, though less recently. So, I’m seeking recommendations for a starter device suitable for someone new to Chastity. Ease of cleaning is key. Any other guidance would be greatly appreciated—is shaving truly necessary? If yes, which areas? For daily hygiene, is showering sufficient? Is there anything else crucial I should know before starting? THANKS! Willing2