Introductions discussion

I have to admit I’ve been lurking here for quite a while, so it’s about time I introduced myself. The sense of community and mutual support has really impressed me; frankly, I’m amazed by how open and honest people are compared to much of the “dodgy” content online!

So far, I love xcite, mikebc, and Mistress Watchful’s journals - thank you for sharing! My background is pretty vanilla, even though my husband and I have been together about 10 years. He loves BDSM; honestly, neither of us realized just how central it was to him when we married. Given our discussions, he seemed to be hoping the feeling would pass.:anim_39: Needless to say, it didn’t.

We’ve finally decided that for me to embrace this side is key to a fulfilling sex life! Things have improved since my husband started introducing me to the joys of being a mistress with a house-slave!

I’m gradually improving various spanking techniques and other things as a long-term project, though our progress is limited by our two-year-old daughter and her attendant exhaustion.

He bought some CB device about a year ago but was disappointed because it didn’t stay put - he has unusually testicles that don’t hold the device well. I thought it seemed like a strange idea at first, not fully understanding it until reading this site. However, chastity play has captured my interest now. We are keen to try it properly if we can find a working device.

My slave is away for work this week, and I’ve set him the task of writing an introductory post in one of our forums here. If he explains his… problem, we hope people will offer advice on what to try next (he doesn’t have a username yet).

Oh well! Plenty of excitement and frustration ahead!