Introductions discussion

My wife and I have sorted out most things in our chastity lifestyle. It works well because she isn’t a big fan of penises, so it’s up to her to control mine. When she says she’d prefer if I never had another orgasm again, you should believe her; 35 years ago she told me I could no longer penetrate her and that has held true ever since. Because of this, adding more time to my chastity doesn’t really change much for us. She uses corporal punishment but dislikes doing it, so I can’t convince her with that method often enough. Since I already lick her bum and feet, there isn’t any sexual act she could force upon me that I wouldn’t enjoy. My only current idea is skipping one of our three weekly sex nights, though I don’t think that alone will deter me much because the sex we do have feels more like teasing—she kisses me while pushing my hand away from her vagina so she can use her vibrator instead. Skipping a few days isn’t a problem for me. I need suggestions, but nothing too extreme, fantasy-based, or outlandish. No public humiliation. I already wear panties rather than men’s underwear and am shaved smooth. She has no interest in male rear ends, so penetration is off the table. Hopefully, some good ideas come up here.