Introductions discussion

Hello all! I’m thrilled to share that I’ve been in a birdlock for the past two days. It’s my first time ever! Unfortunately, I don’t have a KH device, but I’m relying on an emlalock to keep me honest. Here is something I’d like advice on: I want a smaller cage and have already ordered two of them. They claim the cages are 2.5 inches wide, and it looks like when I am flaccid, there is space inside, though not necessarily around the girth. I really love this bird lock mechanism; it’s hard to get off, but it doesn’t feel as snug as I’d prefer. Does anyone have tips for a shorter cage? Being locked has helped me understand chastity better. Before, I was masturbating two or three times daily, and now nothing at all. I can already see myself doing things in the future that I wouldn’t do right now just to get some relief! Looking forward to what’s ahead! Thanks so much for any replies!