Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hello to all. I am new to the site and also to chastity. Reading thru posts I am fascinated by what I don’t know, but excited as well.

I am also experimenting with chastity, and am a novice for sure. I bought a device and tried it a couple of times but I have just figured out what I really like is to not be in control. So I looked for an online keyholder site and found CArlilock. Never heard of it but thought I would try it.

Then I put my key in one of those lock boxes, very small with a combination lock. I reset the combination, without looking at it, took a picture of it, locked the box, scrambled the combination. Sent the picture to the site and it was accepted. Deleted the image on my computer so I had no idea what the combination is. On the site you set your max time and min time which I set to 3 days and 1 day, I have only been locked up for hours before so this is making me afraid of what could happen. The release time is set randomly and I dont know what it is. If I ask to look at the release time, the time is increased one hour. I was very nervous.

But now I am finding that people can randomly increase my time - and if I check to see how much longer that increases my time. I have had eight people randomly add an hour each to my time and inadvertently incurred 14 penalties for another 14 hours. This is much more scary than I thought. I feel completely powerless.

And another small detail is that someone not on the site or me has to visit a link - not sure what they can do - but that is a condition of release. One non site member has to visit my predicament link.

I dont’ know when the release time is, but whenever it is I have to have someone visit the link.

So, I was stupid for not reading everything. But any ideas of how to find out how long I have to be locked up. And how to get my release date.