chastity from her perspective - reflections and queries

I have been fantasizing about chastity as a life style from the moment i got the idea of what that is. i was mainly thinking that it would be best to differentiate the fantasy in my head (porn etc) from the real life. main reason being, that from my (not so big) experience- your girl wants your dick, most of the time she needs a dick and it might as well be yours. deny her of dick- she will give you problems. So if we start chastity, what it means for her is- no dick (or barely), which is a built-in bummer for her in the chastity system. I can talk it through with my GF but bottom line is still ‘no dick for you’ and the rest is just making sure i have my denial fun while she… is not, she have a good sex drive, what can she do in a chastity relationship? do any of you had to overcome this? I assume that maybe it requires the woman to be of certain type (dom, aggressive, powerful nature, low need for dick), or have her want it as much as you from the first place and it is pretty much no prob. and if she is not “the type” will it be relevant to enter chastity anyways? But yet i think most of woman just want the D. im sharing my thoughts with you, to hear from your experience so please share what comes up to your mind when you read this lines as i am looking for points of view and records of experience.:idea: I also trying to make my mind about rather sharing my kink with my gf or not, she is very sweet, very conservative, not much bed experience, younger than me and very feminine, just the opposite of the classic chastity dominator in my head. So should i share? Thank you.