Muzzled Horndog Our Chastity Journey

Hello everyone. I would like to share some of our story here. My wife and I are in our late fifties, having been married for 12 years (both second marriages). We’re empty nesters (which we love). I build custom homes, while Princess K manages the household. We genuinely enjoy each other’s company, and both would say we’re best friends. Our relationship and sex life have always been good.

I’m not exactly sure what sparked this journey, but it was likely me discovering femdom porn and chastity. I started reading up on FLR, tease and denial, etc., which really turned me on. I bought a book about it, prepared my speech, and introduced Princess K to the whole concept of FLR and chastity. I explained how I’ve had trouble with masturbation since puberty. Although our sex life was great (making love three times a week +/-), I would still masturbate on days we didn’t make love. I said that enforced chastity using a device would focus all my sexual energy toward her, benefiting both of us. She hesitantly agreed to give it a try, though she had some reservations.

We began this journey last September and participated in “Locktober”. The longest I went was 6 days without an orgasm, which is quite the accomplishment for someone who has scarcely missed a day for over 40 years. That O was unfreakinbelievable! For the first time in my life, I discovered what saving and giving all of my sexual energy to my partner does for the relationship. Suddenly, I couldn’t keep my hands off her. I wanted to cuddle, rub her back, legs, and feet. I couldn’t wait to get home and snuggle on the couch. The intimacy we found was simply incredible. I have always enjoyed pleasure kisses, but now I was like the cookie monster; I wanted to eat her up! LOL!

We continued with the chastity device and FLR into December, and K was really seeing the benefits. I was opening the car door, taking out the trash or emptying the dishwasher without being asked. She got LOTS of O’s and back rubs almost every night, and I loved it too! I enjoyed the constant energy, buzz, lust—whatever you want to call it—from only ejaculating when she allowed. In FLR, they say “Be careful what you wish for” because there might be no going back, and Princess K really wasn’t interested in returning to how things were. For that matter, neither was I.

However, we began having some issues with the FLR scene. So much of it seems to devolve into kink that neither of us want. Cuckolding, humiliation, sissification, etc., just isn’t a road we want to go down. I also had some physical issues wearing a cage long term. So, surfing the interweb last December, I stumbled upon Devotional Sex (DevS). I began reading and devouring everything on this site. It was amazing! It felt like what I had been looking for all this time!

I introduced this whole concept to Princess K, and she loved it even more than FLR.

So in late December, we put away the chastity device; I went on the honor system, and we began our journey with DevS. It has been fan-fucking-tastic! K has wholeheartedly embraced DevS and become quite the Princess! I just can’t get over what a transformation this has made in our relationship. Almost every day begins and ends with cuddling. Sometimes it leads to full sex, sometimes pleasure kisses and O for her, sometimes just a back rub and a devotional cuddle. K loves seeing and feeling me erect and knowing she’s in control of where it goes. She is still adjusting to me NOT having an O every time, but growing daily in assertiveness. We’ve had some amazing seasons better than any porn I’ve ever seen. That’s another benefit.

My wife has always hated that I looked at porn. Since we began DevS, I stopped watching it, which makes my Princess happy! Also since starting this journey, I could count on one hand how many times I masturbated. I’m proud of that and committed to giving all my energy to my Princess. It’s been an amazing journey so far, and I believe it will only get better from here.

This concept should be taught in school! Whether you know it or not, this is actually a biblical principle. It tells a man to give himself to his wife and love her as Christ loved and gave Himself. In other words, loving with fully devoted and sacrificial love. I am now fully devoted to my Princess K, and we’re loving it!