Doing Self-Stimulation While Wearing a Lock

I’ve been wearing a short Chinese cage for several months now and find it much more comfortable than my previous HT. It’s easy to keep clean in the shower with no irritation, but I’m constantly touching myself. Pushing on the whole cage feels good, tapping it feels good, and putting a finger through an opening feels good too—though never enough to trigger an orgasm. I don’t know if I could push that far; I don’t want to come nor do I try, yet I am always pleasuring myself.

I think this might be taking some focus away from my wife, but truthfully, she isn’t interested in sexual stimulation as often as I’d like it to be. Perhaps my self-play is a healthy expression of my sexuality. As I write this, I realize I need to discuss this with her; that conversation will be another beneficial result of my chastity. Previously, I would have been ashamed to talk about it and she would have felt uncomfortable hearing it.