I need some advice regarding issues with my chastity device, please.

Hi everyone,

Here’s a quick overview: I’ve always aimed for continuous, long-term (lasting months) wear. To reach this point about nine years ago, I purchased a Lori tube featuring a frenum bar and support ring. It still uses the small padlocks. The fit is decent, and the length plus bar position seem right to me (or so I believe). I’ve tried wearing it many times over the years, but after just two days, the piercing gets somewhat damaged or raw and burns intensely, regardless of how much I clean and disinfect it. Then, the underside of my penis behind the piercing starts swelling up and becomes puffy. Once I take the device out, everything returns to normal within a day or two. Sleeping in it is really tough because it suddenly slides over or tips, causing significant tearing on that sore piercing as described. The pain and discomfort are high, but I can manage seven days in this otherwise excellent device. It’s not pleasant, though, and never quite improves. Once, I lasted three weeks with breaks, but it was pretty rough. I use a waistband to support the weight and keep pressure off the piercing. Overall, despite all that time, I still try to wear it often because I’m desperate for secure chastity. My partner holds my keys during our agreed periods, but this is also tough on her since she gets very upset seeing the swelling and inflamed piercing. I need an upgrade that solves security issues without burning or hurting or tearing skin once broken in. Discomfort isn’t a dealbreaker; it’s part of the game. Perhaps someone here has faced similar problems and can advise if there is a better secure device available? Maybe I should get another Lori, this time with PA (penile-attached)? But then I’d need that piercing done again, and I’m worried it might just suffer the same tearing and pain issues. I also worry about how truly secure those anti-tamper screws really are. What about a belt? The Neosteel ARCH was recommended, but I can’t picture any belt stopping pulling-out? Maybe the piercing route is my only option? Any advice from long-term wearers on what to do next would be greatly appreciated.

Best regards, Ben