Rare Exception

We have now reached my 27th day in chastity. I got locked on the same day my device arrived by mail, and we had a chat with my wife that afternoon where she kindly took charge of the key. Aside from some adjustments to modify it and swap out the base ring size during that first week, I have been wearing it non-stop since September 21st, 2011. During the weekdays, I engage in sex while keeping my MCD (Male Chastity Device) locked on. On Sundays, she removes the device for cleaning. She tends to my penis, and I clean the device itself. When the hardware is off, I can use my real organ for intercourse, and oral pleasure feels genuine rather than just her teasing the tip through the tube. Thanks to Sarah’s Male Chastity Blog and this community, we have been able to dive completely into this lifestyle.

So why call it a rare exception? Because I feel like one. My wife and I seem to break several common rules actually. The way my description above paints our picture looks more like something out of a fantasy story than everyday reality, yet that is exactly how we are living it. I read about many men struggling to tell their partners or dealing with unaccepting wives regarding male chastity. I also notice lots of people ease into orgasm denial gradually, testing the waters in short bursts.

I have to admit, this fantasy has been inside me for 30 years, but I never brought it up because I was worried about being seen as a sissy or a slave. Once I started reading Sarah Jameson’s blog and saw that her version didn’t match those stereotypical stories, I could define what male chastity meant to me personally. This gave us the confidence to bring it up with my wife and provided her with good resources to read alongside me. We discussed everything while already locked in, deciding that if we were going to give this a sincere shot, it had to be all or nothing. We agreed on trying it for six months before evaluating whether we liked it enough to keep going long-term. We also felt that just a week or two would be too easy given our sexual routine; we wanted maximum benefit and decided on at least two months of orgasm denial for this first attempt. We even set up a safe word, so if I truly needed relief from the device, we had a way to pause things. She actually made me use it on day three when I woke up in significant pain because the ring was too tight. After adjusting the ring and fixing the pinch points, it has been continuous ever since.

Are we truly an exception? I am not entirely sure, but it feels that way. Others probably feel similar about their own journeys. Realistically, perhaps we cannot be a true outlier since there are no strict rules on how one starts or continues in male chastity. What I do know is that my wife (KH) and I are enjoying this more than I ever thought possible.