Mature Metal discussion

hi everyone and thanks in advance for any helpful tips since I’m new here. I’ve been into BDSM for a few years, but now I feel it’s time to get locked up, hand over control, and stop my excessive whipping—so that means chastity devices!

I thought I was pretty average until I actually compared mine with someone else’s! I picked up several cages: the CB6000, a PA 5000 (1.25 inches wide), plus a couple of other metal ones. Yep, budget-friendly options, and even a Pico from Birdlock—there’s quite a tale behind why I have so many, but that’s another story… I noticed most had standard cages with 1 3/8 inch openings, which seemed fine on paper…!!!

But honestly, none of them seem to fit! I’d read everyone claiming they’ve worn theirs for ages, yet I couldn’t bear any of mine for more than a few days. So after measuring up properly, my length along the top is about 800mm, shaft width is 40mm, and the widest part of the head measures 45mm at rest. No wonder I was getting squished!

My question: Has anyone got advice? Or perhaps you’d like one of these cages since I can’t use them?