Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

After struggling with a CB-6000 that was too tight, I switched to the curved model. It’s been decent enough, though a little bulky under my clothes as I prefer. With some trial and error involving different rings, pins, and spacers, I’ve mostly adjusted. My main headache is nighttime; around 3am I often wake up, and even after calming down, it only lasts for a short while before I’m wide awake again until morning. After two weeks of this disruption, I’ve had enough:angry:. What do you all think? Am I being too impatient? Is the device itself the issue (maybe something silicone, like a Bon4 would help)? Or is it something else entirely?