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2026-09-08T14:16:14.000Z #1

Update! I figured starting a fresh thread made sense since things have shifted quite a bit. As you might recall, I sent my wife an email because reading it seems easier than me rambling on without thinking or messing up the explanation. Anyway, I finally hit send with a slightly trimmed version. She took it surprisingly well. So much so that she called me on Friday to tell me to put it on! That was at 3pm and I did exactly that, handing over the keys. It’s been just over 29 hours since then, and I’ve only taken it off for about 10 minutes to wash up. I’m not sure how long this will last—I told her it’s entirely up to her! The downsides are that my wife hasn’t exactly hidden the keys; she put them in a pot on the kitchen counter. She has also completely ignored the fact that I have it on. Well, not quite true—the only time she mentioned it was asking how I manage to use the toilet. No conversation, no questions, no touches…nothing at all. I did ask if she’d read any of the book I gave her, “A woman’s guide to male chastity,” but unfortunately, she hadn’t. Hmm. I have to be realistic; it won’t be the fantasy we all dream about, but I do hope we start talking more about it. She must have some questions! We’ve been out shopping and visiting friends, things I hadn’t really considered doing before while in chastity. Everything went fine. I thought she might ask if I was comfortable wearing it around, or even just physically comfortable at all. Going to keep going with complete patience and see if any interest develops.

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2026-09-08T21:55:45.968Z #2

Just remember that you're the one wearing a chastity device, not her. You always feel it; you always know it's there. It's different for her. Also, women can be deceptively silent about things they are actually thinking about. My wife was quite excited about me wearing my device at first but never said a word until much later. Until she spoke up, I figured she had zero interest in it; all the while she loved it and found it to be a big turn on. Just be patient. If she acted positively about it after your email, then there's probably something about it she likes and just hasn't felt ready to express it to you yet.

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