Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Any special traditions for Father’s Day? Perhaps you get an orgasm or do something different. For me, it means performing oral on my wife and getting a whipping on the butt. Why the whipping? It’s because I’m sterile and couldn’t provide the child she wanted. I’ve always leaned toward the S&M side of BDSM mostly feeling that punishment was due for failing to impregnate her with my tiny 1” penis, which makes intercourse nearly impossible, especially since ED is also in play. My sperm is malformed, ruling out artificial insemination. Although my wife has significant scar tissue from multiple vaginal surgeries, there was still a slim chance she could conceive. Actually, that’s the excuse her girlfriend gave for subjecting me to sexual torture: I need to be punished for not giving her a baby as she had expected. She claimed I should have realized my sterility before marriage since I never wore condoms and had many partners who all failed to get pregnant. Her tone was half-joking, but it helped me accept the punishment more readily.

So Father’s Day is about punishment rather than pleasure for me. It’s a day I dread for obvious reasons and will endure whatever my wife decides. Whatever she does each year seems fun for her, not necessarily for me. My birthday overlaps with Father’s Day every few years, so sometimes it doubles the trouble. Today, I’m taking 67 strikes from one of her paddles to celebrate my birthday—a family tradition since we married. At first, it was all enjoyable, but now there are more whacks and my wife has to push me through them. I’m not entirely sure what she’s planned for Father’s Day other than a card from our dog, which I suspect isn’t really mine given that the dog doesn’t look like me at all.:)