Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I brought up the idea of chastity with my Wife yesterday, and it turns out she’s been curious if I’d go for it!:D

Any cage suggestions tailored to our lifestyle?

Here are some details:

• We live a standard married life but have two teenagers; we’re kinky in private.
• Most of my work is done sitting in an office, though I also spend time at construction sites where it gets quite hot and humid here in Texas…
• I keep fit with boxing classes and cycling (I do the full kit: road bike, spandex shorts, clip-less pedals; covering 25 to 50 miles per ride).
• Our current ‘plan’ is for occasional use during kinky play and teasing.

Measurements (soft but not turtle’d):

• Top of shaft to pubic bone: 4-1/8”
• Under the shaft to the front of the sack: 3-3/4”
• Glans diameter: 1-1/2”
• Shaft diameter: 1-1/4”

For a tape cock ring (encircling both shaft and scrotum), I measured 6-1/5” circumference. It pulled moderately snug with fabric tape; when tightened to 6-1/4”, it didn’t feel too tight. The diameter conversion is roughly 6.25 = 1.989.

My initial thought was to grab a cheap Chinese knockoff for an trial run, perhaps opting for steel later because it’s easier to clean and offers more impact when straining through the bars during teasing or kinky play. I’m also considering plastic or silicone for times we attend sports games where metal detectors are involved.

Naturally, we’ll likely end up with both types… I feel like a device with a split cock ring would be preferable so it fits snugly without making installation a struggle.

• Has anyone here worn a cage while cycling (specifically in spandex shorts with a chamois)?
• If I try riding, silicone seems logical—I assume I’ll need to clean thoroughly once back home…

Boxing workouts involve kicking, burpees, sit-ups, and more.

• Are there any Silicone cages featuring a split cock ring? (I haven’t Google’d this yet…) Am I overcomplicating the issue of lacking a split ring? Some of my questions above suggest an intent to wear it more frequently than we might currently be considering…

Thanks in advance!