Introductions discussion

Where do I even begin? It was a huge milestone for me this past weekend. My wife and I have been dabbling in chastity on the lighter side for roughly a year now, mostly aligning with her schedule (if she’s locked, so am I) or when I’m going about my day solo. We had discussed pushing things further but weren’t quite sure of the path forward. On Friday night, browsing online, I stumbled upon a thread here listing various contracts other members used, and spent some time reading through them before editing one to suit our dynamic. As of Sunday, April 29th, 2012, I am officially under a Contract of Chastity with my Wife serving as Keyholder. I won’t necessarily break records for how long I stay confined since she allowed me out the last two nights for some playtime, but I’ll be locked up about 23 hours each day, likely for around 10 days maximum (excluding times like showering). This idea has been brewing in my mind for a couple of years, and now it’s real!!!

Our dynamic isn’t strictly Fem-Dom, though I’m working to make it at least an equal partnership, perhaps even tilting slightly towards her. I can already feel myself changing; I find myself pausing before acting to ensure what I do aligns with the contract and my desired outcome. My wife is showing subtle shifts too—she’s become more directive, giving orders rather than asking questions, which extends into our intimate moments as well. Last night she actually pushed me down where she wanted me and kept me there until she was finished!!! I genuinely think I’m going to enjoy this new direction for my life and relationship.

I did have a question: Does the confinement clock reset when you are let out for play, or only if it’s a longer release?

Also, here is what I am currently wearing: Birdlocked Neo (for everyday), Birdlocked Maxie in Tuxedo Black (for formal occasions), and my Birdlocked Pico should arrive tomorrow (in case I misbehave). I’m also considering the CB series models—maybe the 3000, 6000, or Curve. Just trying to find something that holds up well long-term. The Neo is comfortable enough but occasionally sticks a bit and isn’t quite long enough for my build. When compressed, it tends to slide down about half an inch… That’s what led me to consider the 6000 or the Curve.

Anyway, back to work I go, then home later to see what plans my wife has for tonight!!!

Thanks everyone, Caged Wolf