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Hello, Allow me to introduce myself; I’m Lillian Fae (at least that’s what my husband calls me). My spouse and I have decided to embark on this male chastity journey to shift the balance of power in our relationship. Raised in a sheltered home, I’ve always seemed drawn or controlled by dominant individuals, yet deep down I truly feel like a dominant person myself but haven’t had the means to really explore it or let myself feel it. My husband and I agreed that this path could help me do just that, while he feels he wants to discover within himself what it’s like to be ‘me’ in our dynamic.
We received our first chastity device this evening, and he is wearing it for the very first night. We want to ensure a good fit; currently, he isn’t quite sure how to feel or think about it all. I’m hoping he doesn’t back out because we haven’t yet acquired all the tools needed for me to empower myself (arm/ankle cuffs, harness, feet and hands bar, whip, etc).
Any advice for a first-timer would be greatly appreciated. I am now going to work on figuring out a contract and determining exactly which rules I want my man to abide by.
- Fae