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I am lamb. I used to be a husband who was aggressive, abusive, and controlling. Roughly five years back, my Wife reached her limit and told me: you have two paths ahead—either you change or I walk away. Initially, I was stunned, and later on, filled with shame for how I had acted. I love Her deeply and made a promise to transform. I attempted to keep my temper in check, though it didn’t work out well most of the time. My happiness eluded me during that period while She remained scared and distant, leading to numerous crises.
Then, about three years ago, I stumbled upon details regarding the DS lifestyle online. Since I have a kinkier side, I picked up on this concept quickly and soon felt it might be just what we needed to fix our issues. I proposed to my Wife that She take on the role of Mistress while I became her submissive husband. After considerable debate, She agreed to give it a shot, albeit reluctantly.
The early months were tough. I was devouring information about this dynamic and moved too quickly for Her liking. Like many others, I attempted to dictate things from my end despite being at the bottom of the hierarchy. Through trial and error (with plenty of errors), we gradually discovered our respective roles.
I have used up all my energy today. I will write more later. lamb