Introductions discussion

Hello. I was thrilled to discover this community. It appears very well-organized and great to see such activity! Plus, it’s led by a real woman, which is perfect. My goal is to learn more and hear about what others have gone through, while also sharing some of my own stories. Years ago, I had a short casual kinky relationship with a dominant lady that involved chastity. However, earlier this year, my girlfriend—the one I love so much—asked me to list all my deepest fantasies. I went for it and included FLR in there. Once I explained it to her and highlighted how she would benefit, she was surprisingly open to trying it! That’s one of the best things about her; she really wants to make me happy, although I realize this might mean I’m topping from below (but she seems fine with that). In short, two months ago we decided to try out enforced chastity. After sorting out a few fit issues for comfort, it’s been going quite smoothly as expected. We live about 45 minutes to an hour apart, and I usually visit her on weekdays for two evenings and stay over most weekends. She is very possessive (which I enjoy), so it’s fantastic waking up in the mornings to see her snap shut the lock on my cock cage (MM Queen’s Keep). Even though there have been moments of pain from losing unrestricted erections, I really love this setup and how empowered she seems becoming. She has dealt with a lot previously and struggled with confidence, but she mentioned enjoying her new authority, which I believe is boosting her self-esteem. She’s also getting stricter than expected. I thought she’d let me out every time we met, but last week she only unlocked me twice for intercourse, while receiving oral sex from me much more often. Apologies if that’s too much detail. We are incorporating other elements of a female-led relationship as well. I am really into domestic servitude, and we’ve had some wonderful fun with it, especially since she lives with her mother—that’s another story for later! So things look cautiously positive now. We are in this for the long haul, and I hope that by year’s end I can call myself an FLM haha. Pleased to be here with everyone. Let’s start chatting!