Journals and blogs discussion

Hello everyone,

I’ve chosen to bring my journal over to the community. I previously kept a blog on, but I find it more appealing here among people who share similar interests and quirks.

To start with some background: I’m 34 years old and originally from Denmark. My mistress and I run a small business together where we both work. Outside of that, I study philosophy. I enjoy reading books and listening to music; my favorites include Rammstein, Tom Waits, and Portishead.

I have experience teaching martial arts to children and adults, though recently I’ve focused more on fitness maintenance. My mistress is also my life partner, someone I cherish deeply. You might know her here as Fantasee.

This journal will primarily focus on the Ds (Dominance/submission) aspects of our relationship and chastity, but life is complex with many intertwined facets in our lifestyle. So, while some topics may not directly relate to chastity or power dynamics, I hope others can still connect with them.

I am Danish, so English isn’t even my second language! Please be forgiving when reading this post. While I can communicate well, subtle nuances are sometimes missed, and idioms don’t always translate perfectly. If something sounds off, please let me know; it might just be the language barrier at play.

But remember, this is a personal journal.. Today I’m dealing with a mild hangover. My dear old friend visited yesterday, and we shared some wine. I got tired quickly because of poor sleep, but she chatted away until 8 am! So today, she’s quite weary:-) However, they had a wonderful conversation and enjoyed their time together last night. It was all worth it.

Regarding my chastity: I’m wearing a Neosteel belt and have been locked up for quite some time now. Getting used to it required patience, especially finding the right fit. Being slim means my hipbone is prone to chafing with a full steel belt. What started as an experiment has surprised both her and me with its mental impact. We like keeping things this way—the keys are safely in the safe box, so I don’t know exactly when (or if) I’ll have another orgasm or release. It might not happen within this year.

I hope to fulfill my mistress’s wishes completely. As I realize more and more, her decision will be final regarding any future releases, regardless of what I desire myself.

Right now, she’s sitting at her (my!) computer in a white robe, ready for bed after a long day. Meanwhile, I’m seated in my chair with my Mac, typing this out. Life is good:-)

Goodnight to you all..