Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I was eager to find out everyone’s preference. I currently get an orgasm once every week or two. Our sex life is mostly standard, but when the mood hits, my mistress can be quite filthy (though not often enough:) ). Frequently, I wish for longer periods of orgasm denial and more kinky play in the bedroom. I really enjoy that ‘high on desire’ feeling my mistress gives me after a week of locking up, but it frustrates me when she takes it away by letting me cum. I don’t always drop into submission, though most times I do. It feels like we could get even more from our lifestyle if she extended the denial periods and included sexual acts where she fully dominates me.

So would you prefer kinkier bedroom play with little to no chance of ever orgasming, or regular orgasms every week or two but mostly standard sex…

Ultimately, it’s her call. Maybe she doesn’t enjoy feeling completely dominant all the time, even though she certainly appreciates the perks…

I’m interested in hearing what others think and how they manage their chastity lifestyle.