Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Greetings everyone. I am new to this place and had my slave create a name for me and register on this site for two main reasons. First, I want to keep an eye on what my cheeky slave is getting up to, and secondly, to seek advice and inspiration. I am lucky because my slave (sandra) and I live together and share the same ideals in this wonderful lifestyle. We have been playing at this for nearly 6 years but feel now is the time to step it up a notch or two. About a year ago I bought the CB6000 for sandra, and we have had a few attempts at keeping her in chastity. It all goes well for a while then one of us loses interest and everything falls apart again. This time though, both of us are determined to make it work. My problem is that years ago I was the submissive side and never in my wildest dreams did I even contemplate turning the tables and becoming a Mistress; that changed when I met sandra. I now have so much admiration for Masters and Mistresses’ that I never understood before, and I even took for granted the hard work required…often when tired or out of sorts I let things slip thinking sandra will just keep going until im ready to start again, but it doesn’t quite work like that does it! Up until last night sandra had been locked in 24/7 for nearly a week, but last night the device kept waking her up every hour and after a while we had to take it off as she became irritable. Sandras job involves concentration and what she does could be dangerous if over tired so obviously she needs a good nights sleep. Does anyone have any suggestions regarding this as she wants to stay in it 24/7? I suggested keeping it off during the night and putting it back on the following morning, but she said she is worried that she cannot trust herself to want to put it back on.. what can I do to ensure she does and what can she do to make sure she does? I have never known her more attentive, loving, obedient, horny, eager to please etc in my life so it is obvious to us both that this works but how do we get over this problem? I would appreciate any advice anyone can give. Anyway I will post more later. Thank you all. Mistress Jennie :cat: