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Hi there, I’m new to this place and signed up because I couldn’t find answers to my questions online anywhere else. I’ve been using a chastity device intermittently for four years, trying both forced wear and non-forced modes. Right now, I own an MM Jailbird that comes with two rings: a 5/8 OVAL GAP 3/8 (Small) and a 3/4 OVAL GAP 3/8 (Large). Their diameters are very close to each other.
When I wear the smaller ring, I experience sharp lower back pain during erections, which gives me the sensation that I need to have a bowel movement even though I don’t. It fits snugly and stays in place well throughout the day. With the larger ring, there isn’t much pain, just compression; however, it shifts more, requiring frequent adjustments. Does anyone know why the smaller ring causes this discomfort?
I hope to find a fit where I can use the smaller ring without back pain, as that feels like the correct size for me. I don’t want to change the gap measurement because I believe it is already ideal. I’m considering buying another device later on and would love to get the right fit immediately. The only other idea might be to choose a slightly smaller cage. For this particular unit, I used the specs from the CB-6000 since that one worked well for me.
Separately, I’ve noticed my veins look much more prominent in that area ever since starting chastity wear, and they haven’t gone down even after taking a good break. Has anyone else dealt with this?
Thanks ahead of time to whoever replies.