Introductions discussion

Hi everyone, Here’s my intro.. I’m a married man, around 45 years old. My interest in chastity games goes back to before puberty. I clearly remember wrapping up my genitals with masking tape as a kid so they were out of reach. It feels deeply ingrained in me! I’ve been married for two decades, although back then I wasn’t fully aware of how strong my hidden urge was. My wife is quite traditional and not particularly drawn to kinkiness. To her, BDSM seems more like “dress-up” than anything substantial. She loves buying the outfits but doesn’t really understand what I need once she’s wearing them. lol. Still, she’s patient with my chastity cravings. When I found out about Lori tubes, I got a frenum piercing done. Sadly, it migrated right away, so I switched to CB2K gear. I picked up one model first, then later added the 3K. I can slip out of either easily enough, which means they aren’t very secure for me. Eventually, I decided to try a PA piercing instead. It looked like it was healing nicely after a month, so I ordered a #6 tube from Lori. Naturally, two weeks later, that one migrated too, leaving the tube with no way to attach securely. sigh. Now, two years on, I’ve had another PA done. I’m in week three and recovery is going well. Fingers crossed this one “sticks”! Meanwhile, as I dive into chastity play, my wife has been understanding up to a point but really doesn’t quite “get it.” Sometimes she supports me; other times she thinks it’s just childish behavior and wishes I’d let it go. We tried her holding the key for me using the cb3k briefly. She ended up clipping the key onto her car keys, hanging them on the hook with a casual “if you need it, there it is.” sigh. I’ve tried explaining my desires to her, as well as how topping me in chastity could benefit us both. I gave her some printed info about female domination, but she never really read through them. It all just makes her feel pressured into something that doesn’t excite her much. I get it, so I’ve been trying not to push too hard. Unfortunately, my desires don’t fade; they grow stronger. So, if this new piercing heals properly and the Lori tube holds up, I’ll likely stay locked under my own management. I suppose I’ll bring it up with her again when the time is right. Given my previous streak of bad luck with piercings, there’s no use getting too excited until I prove I can be reliably locked in chastity. Anyway, that sums me up!:-) mikecb