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Since @lockit and I haven’t been very active here on CM for a while, we decided it was time to reintroduce ourselves to those who don’t know us. We met here in the mini forum after chatting a few times. I offered a free padlock from my site to anyone who commented on that post. Lockit was one of them; I recall hearing from another member (@maid_carrie, this is all your fault) say he thought it was destiny. Personally, I wasn’t buying into that whole destiny bit at the time. So when it came down to choosing a winner, I used a random number generator with specific parameters. To my surprise, his number came up. Even though I couldn’t believe it had actually happened, I had promised publicly to be thorough about picking the winner, so there was no going back. I let lockit know and announced him as the victor, sending out the padlock not long after. The plan was for a short-term lock of just a couple of days - I could have sworn I sent it on Tuesday, but apparently not, since it didn’t arrive until the following week. And so began our lovely relationship: Mistress Jules has plenty of fun while lockit lives in suspense, never quite sure what I’ll come up with next to keep him alert. As a pair, we’ve visited fetish clubs in both Glasgow and London, attending various Fetish Fairs along the way as well as munches. We’re quite recognizable on the Glasgow BDSM scene, though perhaps less so in London since I haven’t managed to get time off work recently to match up with Club Pedestal. @lockit is mine; he started out as my chaste male and submissive, gradually evolving into a lover/partner and slave. All this while we still live 500 miles apart! The level of chastity varies depending on his work schedule and how close I am to him physically. Sometimes he stays locked for months at a time, other times just for a few hours because knowing I hold the power helps me get through my day. There have been periods where we agreed he could be unlocked for several days; recently, during a job interview, I called him saying “I need you to lock, right now.” He did so and verified it, and I got the position. Things are easier these days since I switched to a dual-sim phone - essential when you’re part-owner of a BDSM dungeon. It helps him know whether he’s receiving calls or messages from his Mistress rather than just his partner. With no room for excuses now and little chance that I’ll change my mind, it is Mistress Jules who holds the reins.