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Greetings everyone:) I am a 33-year-old man from the Netherlands, living in a switch dynamic with my girlfriend/sub/Mistress. It isn’t always easy, but we are content.
I have long been fascinated by orgasm denial and CBs. I previously owned a curved device, but since my tool is not particularly large, I now use a cb3000. My Mistress also serves as my keyholder.
Every few weeks or so, our roles naturally shift; it happens organically rather than being something we consciously decide upon. We cannot force the change when we switch. However, when I am in the slave role, She prefers to deny me orgasms and keep me locked up.
Previously, I would get quite annoying while locked, constantly touching Her and begging for release. Surprisingly, two weeks ago She locked me again, but this time I did some online research into how others feel and cope with being locked up, and it clicked for me. When She does this, I genuinely feel very submissive and want to make Her comfortable. With her demanding job that includes evening and night shifts, I took over the daily chores without complaint. I want things to be easy for Her when she is home. So I handle housekeeping (with a smile), giving Her more time to relax and Dominate me:) It is truly a win-win situation:D
I am not particularly into the sissy aesthetic, nor is my Mistress. We stick to chastity, tease, and denial.
Interestingly, it only seems to work effectively when I am physically locked up; that is when the urge hits me most strongly. I would like to understand the psychology behind this phenomenon. What exactly happens inside my head once the lock closes and the key rests on a chain around Her neck?
I read many of the journals here on this forum and really enjoy the stories. Perhaps I will write one myself soon.
Thank you all for reading, and see you around:) Right now I am back in the dominant role again, so it might take a while;)