If It Were Possible to Slip Free

This forum is about living out male chastity in the real world. I don’t think any of the men on here are kept in chastity against their will. It’s a popular subject in chastity fiction, but that’s where it begins and ends I believe. Male chastity was my idea. I asked to be locked up. It’s voluntary. At the same time, I’ve come to see that in one sense I am being kept by Melissa and whether I am locked up or not is no longer entirely up to me. Let me explain… I was showering last night, soaping up my cage, when I decided to see just how easy it would be to pull out if I wanted. From reading this forum I’ve known, since before I bought it, that it is doable; I’ve just never tried it. I was disappointed to learn how easy it would be. With a lot of soap and water and some determination I saw how I could pull my penis out (my balls are not coming out without the key). I decided to show Melissa what I’d learned. I asked her to come in to the bedroom and I pulled myself almost all the way out. She also was upset to learn how easy it would be. She does not frequent these forums and relies on me to tell her about all things chastity-wise. She had thought that once locked it was not coming out. She was so upset because she *likes *having me under her physical control. She was also upset for me as she knows the physical control is a big psychological thrill for me. I explained to her that all trapped ball devices have this problem to one degree or another. I told her that that is why some men opt for a piercing that can be locked to the device to prevent them from pulling out. Melissa thought about it and then decided a piercing is not in my future. I would be willing, and I think I’d even enjoy it, but she does not find them attractive. She also vetoed the idea of a full belt. She does not find them attractive either. After some more discussion we decided that:

1. We’d think some more about a Steelheart with the locking nylon waist belt that usually goes with the CB Zero Ultra.
2. When our device is dry it works beautifully. It keeps me secure. It certainly keeps me from masturbating should I waver in my commitment to male chastity. For me to pull out would require me to strip, lather up, and take a few minutes to work myself free. Then, I’d have to somehow get myself back in. All of this requires time and determined effort. If I did all that, Melissa said, then I may as well say to hell with male chastity - and she would be crushed. And that’s my point. Melissa has come to love our practice of chastity so much that for me to end it would truly disappoint her. She likes the increased intimacy, the communication, and the devotion I show her now. And she also has discovered how much she likes being dominant and having control over our sex life. She has surprised herself in learning how much she enjoys being my keyholder. Our relationship - on all levels - has become much, much better. Our sex life, she says, is a hundred times better. I think that, even if I wanted to stop, her love of male chastity would cause me to continue in it out of love for her and my desire to make her happy. So, in one sense, it *is *her will that keeps me caged. Michael