Introductions discussion

Hello everyone,

We just found your site through a web search and are happy to be here. I have locked my husband in chastity for the first time during our ten-year marriage. This is part of a disciplinary program I am starting with him as well. I hope to give regular spankings as punishment, along with other measures to help with behavioral issues like swearing, not helping around the house, and spending more time with friends than with me.

Any advice or recommendations for when I get started would be appreciated—I feel quite overwhelmed about where to begin—but there are several questions that I’d appreciate answers to:

• Does anyone use punishment panties? If so, do you have any good sites to buy them from?
• Does anyone ever give mouth soapings to their submissive partner?
• Do anyone dress their submissive in feminine clothing as a form of punishment and humiliation?
• Is there a good alternative punishment I can use during the time that my husband is allowed out of the device?

Thanks!