Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

hello from Ireland my problem is that my wife find male chastity to strange, she finds putting your penis in a cage to strange to deal with, i have told her that the truth and i only want to have it to stop wanking, so my only way was to do chastity was by “will power” and the most i have lasted was twenty two days, but what i got out of it was that i was horney for the first week, well i was able to deal with it and the rest of the time no problem, but when i am wanking i am horney all the time every minute of the day i only sleep about four to five hours a night and the rest of the time i am thinking about sex. who i would to hear from is from wives /girlfriends whom found it to strange in the beginning and why was it to strange to deal with, you see my wife have a low sex drive and i think that this has a lot to do with it. looking forward to reading your replies