Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’d like to know what keyholders think who went with permanent chastity for their men, either picking it or agreeing to it. What was your reason? Why did you want it or agree to it? How has life shifted since then? What hurdles have you and he had to get over to maintain his chaste state?

I’m bringing this up because my wife’s moved from a quiet wish for permanent chastity to practically insisting on it. I see her point, so here is a quick recap.

My wife is due in days or maybe even hours with our sixth baby (and yes, two of those arrived after we began looking into chastity). This pregnancy has been tough for her—it’s the first one that hasn’t come easily compared to the others.

Last night, we talked about what life looks like once the little one arrives. Sex came up, and she said no more pregnancies for her this time around. She’d be fine with me getting a vasectomy if I wanted it, but she doesn’t want penetration from me anymore. To give some context: this pregnancy happened after seven months of chastity when my arousal was high; only the tip of my member entered her and I came inside. It sounds wild, but she did get pregnant.

She is certain she does not want to be penetrated again (ever). She knows how pushy I can become when I crave penetration. The option shouldn’t really exist for us anymore. If physical access remains possible, I’ll eventually wear her down and convince her otherwise. After getting pregnant from just the glans being inside, she doesn’t want to risk it.

So, she told me she wants permanent chastity going forward (we mean never-ending, though we allow taking the device off for emergencies or safety reasons). For the last few months, I’ve enjoyed teasing without a cage. That changes right after our baby is born. We’ll look for a device designed for long-term wear so it doesn’t need frequent removal for cleaning, and I will remain chaste from now on.

During our talk, she admitted that adjusting to this permanent state won’t be easy for me. She promised to put in more effort by playing with me more often. She said she loves me and wants my happiness as much as possible, knowing I’ll need her support to thrive as a fully chaste husband. This felt sweet coming from her, especially since I know she isn’t usually one for frequent play.