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2026-09-11T11:51:27.000Z #1

Since I’m just starting out in the chastity world, though not new to a D/s dynamic and excited for my wife to act as my KH. We’ve experimented with other devices before without much success for long-term wear (and some even failed short-term) because of discomfort or pinching…

After doing plenty of research, we’re likely going to purchase an Evotion eventually, though it’s not in the budget right now and we’d like a temporary solution until that time comes.

My main concern - at 6’6” and 250 lbs, I suspect most base rings found on ball-locking devices top out around 2 inches, which might be too small. I recently picked up an Utimi Cock Cage from Amazon and it works great, but the last couple of days have introduced some issues.

  1. My testicles became quite swollen and sore. Partly due to not having release, but it felt more like the swelling post-vasectomy.
  2. This morning, after wearing the cage overnight, I noticed a slight purplish tint on my right testicle. For now, we’ve taken the device off to avoid any health complications.

Questions -

  1. What is the most reliable method for measuring your base ring? My measurement shows a circumference over 9 inches, meaning the diameter is near 2.8 inches.
  2. I’m also looking for a non-metal option (for traveling and TSA… ugh). Any further guidance would be greatly appreciated.

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