Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My spouse and I are still quite fresh to the world of chastity, but we’re finding our groove. This will likely shift and grow over time, so here is where things stand for now. Most folks probably have cycles that differ greatly from mine, but do you go through similar stages? Perhaps my cycle hasn’t been long enough yet to trigger a new wave of sensations?

Day 1 Locked: The tight pouch causes general unease, with some pinching as I adjust. “Why did we even start this?”

Day 2 Locked: It’s okay. I recall what it feels like now. But the horniness isn’t really there yet. Why did we do this?

Day 3 Locked: Very comfortable. I feel securely ‘possessed’. I could keep going for a week, month, or even year. For some reason, I seem to be tackling extra chores around the house.

Day 4 Locked (today): Feeling oddly sexual. While I don’t really want the device removed, I need some sort of attention from my wife in that area. Any kind works, especially if it’s a bit degrading, even though I’m not allowed to climax yet.

Day 5 Locked: The device feels tight, but not because the pouch is constricting. It’s more that my testicles are filling up with fluid. My need for an orgasm grows stronger and I feel slightly unhinged.

Day 6 Locked: Take this thing off! I’m unsure how much longer I can endure it.

Day 7 Locked: Get this device away from me! (I don’t complain to her, obviously). My frustration is probably visible on my face. She finally unlocks me and we climax together. Happy for the break, but a bit sad that it’s over.

Day 8 Unlocked: Masturbation time. I never want that thing back on again.

Day 9 Unlocked: Masturbate again. Ugh, really don’t want it back on, but geez this porn is gross.

Day 10 Unlocked: Back to “normal” life. I’ve forgotten what being locked feels like and frankly couldn’t care less about remembering.

Day 11 Unlocked: Honestly, having it locked again wouldn’t be so bad. It’s kind of a hot fantasy. Masturbate.

Day 12 Unlocked: I want her to lock me back up, but I’m afraid to ask. “Beware what you wish for.”

Day 13 Unlocked: Maybe I can drop a hint or something. No, don’t do it yet. You’ll regret it.

Day 14 Unlocked: She mentions locking me back in tonight. We have some amazing sex. OMG. Here we go again. Locked up once more.