Introductions discussion

I’ve been watching the conversations here for a while before finally joining in. My name is Sam, I’m 43, married with two kids, and work is always keeping me occupied. My libido is quite strong, significantly higher than my wife’s. Of course, I can’t have sex constantly, but at least I desire it. ;) Our sexual life has mostly been standard with the occasional toy. We haven’t done much BDSM, apart from a few attempts at bondage. Still, I’ve always found that side of things appealing. Last year, male chastity was something I couldn’t quite wrap my head around. Why would any man lock his penis in a device and hand over control to his wife? Well … after struggling with porn addiction for years and seeing our relationship strain because of our mismatched libidos, I found this practice. I brought it up to my wife; she thought it was odd since she didn’t want the burden of managing my sex life. But we gave it a shot … without an actual device … just through mental discipline … and it succeeded. It worked better than expected, and she enjoyed it too. She appreciated how attentive I became towards her, and liked that intimacy could happen without necessarily involving penetration. Unfortunately, she sometimes overlooks the need for attention and teasing to keep my drive up (it all requires effort on both sides). I’m still searching for a device suitable for nearly 24/7 wear. The issue seems to be with my compact sports build … many devices compress my testicles too much because I am certainly not one of those guys with low-hanging parts.