Introductions discussion

I’m new to chastity, though the concept isn’t unfamiliar. I’ve desired this state for years—though not primarily for the sum or dom dynamics often cited in these discussions.

For me, it’s a signal to my partner that I belong to her. While I wouldn’t stray and don’t intend to offend whether I wear a device or not, I want her to savor the idea of having me chaste and hers around the clock.

I’d like her to take full control of my pleasure here; if fortune smiles on me, she’ll grant release too. Honestly though, I hope that by pleasing her sufficiently, I earn that special moment of freedom.

My top fantasy involves her reading erotic literature for hours while a vibrating egg stays inside her and I remain chaste below. Then, having her straddle me so my tongue can service her as she plays with my cage—cumming repeatedly, possibly still using the egg simultaneously.

Only then would I want her to gently remove my device with a key (I prefer actual keys over combination locks, which don’t thrill me quite as much). Afterward, she might let me cum inside her or allow my excitement to fade before slowly re-locking me back in place.

Yes, this mirrors many male sub/dom fantasies closely. The difference is that I prioritize pleasuring her well before enjoying my own fun, rather than it being a demand from her side.

I’m eager to see how things unfold… but first, I must confess my kink to her, display the device, and perhaps hand over the key.

In the meantime, I’ll leave the key on her ring. I plan to lock myself up either while she’s out or during work hours—just in case she loves the concept enough for us to leap into this lifestyle at full speed rather than creeping in awkwardly.

I’d truly appreciate any thoughts on how best to approach my wife with this fetish—I really do need guidance here.

Also, I’m writing a completely honest blog about my feelings and progress. I’ll be updating it regularly; please read along and contribute over there.

Thanks so much, hugs