Introductions discussion

Hello everyone, I came across CM by clicking a link in Lucy’s profile on FL. Chastity has always been of interest to me, but within my vanilla partnership it can be quite tense. Lying there at night, I’m constantly wondering if my partner will decide to reach for my manhood. She hasn’t started that way in years yet tonight could be different as she might just find out about my caged state. Another issue is keeping up an active social life where I often stand before a crowd. The visible bulge of the cage, the clinking padlock, and those obvious signs when excitement makes me leak onto my pants can cause embarrassment. Also, urinating isn’t easy unless sitting down - since the urethral insert doesn’t fully seal the passage, any extra pressure from the bladder might send a stream of urine bypassing the tube wherever it chooses. I’ve tried several different cages; each has pros and cons. For my short cock (fine if you call it small or even tiny), I require a shorter cage so that everything reaches forward properly. Using something like a ‘birdcage’ would look odd with only a third of its length filled. Initially, my practice was self-imposed and managed entirely by myself. Now sometimes there are orders to put on the device using a numbered plastic padlock - along with regular photo proof. Up till now I’ve kept hold of the key. My name journey began as Chris then became Christina before settling down as slutina. That’s my introduction! Tina