Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hello! I am seeking a submissive man to take on as a long-term slave, with the possibility of a lifelong bond if things align perfectly. Please READ carefully because I have a complete list of needs and requirements, give it some thought and HONESTLY ask yourself whether you might be suitable material for My slave (though ultimately, the choice is Mine).

** DO NOT send Me direct messages or comments regarding this thread**. If interested: **post your questions and statements within this topic! **Feel free to ask anything; I will answer what suits me. Rudeness, disrespect (such as failing to address me as a Mistress or capitalize “She” when referring to me), immaturity, or messy writing with spelling errors may result in being ignored.

A bit about Myself: I am an energetic woman, not a professional dominatrix but more of the spoiled type who naturally gravitates toward masculine jerks. I enjoy playing with them, yet have rarely had patience for stable relationships because my own submissiveness tends to surface only during good sex. I prefer things MY WAY and lean toward an open relationship model where one guy serves as My dog, ensuring everything goes according to My will, while alpha males handle other aspects.

After consideration, I believe that finding the perfect man for a slave role would make me incredibly happy in a lasting partnership, allowing carefree fun with alphas on the side without worrying about holding him down. Finding good material is difficult though… Most past partners were only submissive due to weak personalities or physical limitations, hiding selfishness deep down.

Here are My basic requirements for the ideal slave:

1. You need not be extremely handsome, cute, or young, but must be clean and presentable. No fat, dirty, unhealthy types.
2. Wealth is optional; you cannot be a broke, lazy slug living with parents or in squalor eating instant noodles. A decent income is needed to cover at least some of My needs. You must always be ready for spontaneous ideas. For instance, I might choose dinner at one of My favorite restaurants early on, and you will pay without expecting Me to contribute financially. This relationship is NOT about financial domination; we will share household costs.
3. NO SEX. EVER. For you. No pussy penetration, no blowjob, nor even having my mouth near your genitals. I have other men for that purpose. If you hope for “getting some,” discard those illusions now.
4. Chastity is mandatory. You do not need to be locked currently, but upon our first meeting (perhaps at a coffee shop), I will require you to wear a locking device. If the meeting goes well and you are deemed suitable material, I expect you to hand over the key.
5. No cock piercings or weird body modifications! These disgust me. I want a healthy cock (or a clit if micro-penised, which is cute).
6. Your time outside of work belongs to Me as My slave (with agreed family exceptions). No NBA games, gaming, or porn. I have many needs and demand attention.
7. You must listen and never disobey Me. Disobedience breaks our contract; I tolerate no exceptions unless there is an emergency health reason.
8. Full trust in me is required. Aside from being passionately intense, I am sane and will assign tasks for your benefit (like light workouts to keep you fit).
9. Your diet is under My control. You must eat healthy; sweets or disallowed foods are forbidden.
10. NO LAZINESS!
11. Readiness to serve and enjoy making others happy. Many seen slaves are perverts who merely want to look at or grab a mistress’s body parts. Slavery is not about you enjoying worshipping female anatomy; it is about serving! Serving should bring pleasure to both, with nothing owed by Me for your service.
12. No expectations beyond doing as told. Do not expect rewards that cause arousal. I may allow worship if I wish, or deny even touch of My shoes’ bottoms. It depends on the mistress.
13. The closest you get to intercourse is through worshipping sessions—possible but optional. Rewards are not fixed rules; they depend on Me. Your reward is My happiness and the honor of being My personal slave. Worship serves my pleasure, not yours. If I want a massage, give it without rubbing your penis against the cage in excitement. I might use your oral skills sexually while blindfolding you so you cannot see My private parts. Always thank Me after.
14. Self-control is essential. Sometimes I stand before the mirror in tight leather pants getting ready for a date. You may kneel behind holding my coat or shoes, rewarded by watching My juicy ass squeeze the fabric. Do not touch “by accident” nor approach; you might even be ordered to look away and bow your head.
15. While I need you to fight straight sexual urges, you must remain straight. No gays, etc., as I would dislike a slave who dreams of sucking dick someday. Your primary drive must be wild attraction toward Me and My feminine form.

One final requirement: You must live in the USA/Canada or move here, as I do not plan to leave (unless Hillary becomes president). Traveling within these countries is common for me, so your specific state matters less.

you need to be prepared to head out wherever the states I pick happen to be. Likely a pleasant coffee shop somewhere in an urban center. However, you’ll have quite a trek ahead of you before reaching that stage. So put your nose to the grindstone.