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Hello, I mentioned in my thread that I planned to try Emlalock for this site. I have completed several short sessions as a self-locker. What I want now is to test out a longer session with a remote keyholder who can verify things. My current idea is to link it around weight loss since I need to shed some pounds, which would also help the device fit more comfortably. (Although we could talk about that later). Ideally, I prefer the keyholder to be a woman because it helps me personally with some of the behind-the-scenes conversations. As I hope she will want to stay in touch and discuss how things are progressing. (It’s not strictly sexual - but I’m 40, single and living in the UK). The end goal is somewhere down the line but it won’t last forever. From my experience with other users on Emlalock itself, it can be hard to find a session that is both offered at the right time and free of complications like potential permanent chastity or too many requirement links. So I am asking directly through this site and board instead. Plus - I have come to trust and respect quite a few users here;) (and you never really know who anyone on Emlalock is…). I’m not expecting an immediate response - as seems to be the norm here - but if anyone is interested. Send me your Holderid and/or some details and I’ll send over a proposed session for you to either accept or decline. If you’ve never key held before or are in a committed relationship but wanted to try a standard lock up over a finite (but indefinite) period of time this could suit you too. It might be a win-win situation for both parties. Or I’ll just have to take the plunge soon with a random person on the site… Let me know if you want more info but ideally let me know your HolderID and help me test this out. Go on - there must be someone! You must have wondered what goes through a man’s mind if only you could ask him anything … … … C’mon - what else can I offer? To sweeten the deal…:spank:* (*No - not that one!)

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