Female led relationships discussion

We’re new to the world of chastity and recently switched to a metal device that fits tightly, yet I haven’t been able to slip out. Being young with a high sex drive and having gone two weeks without a release, my wife decided to take me clothes shopping this past weekend for the first time since being locked in chastity. It wasn’t clothes shopping for me, but rather for her. My role was to follow her into stores, watch her try things on, pay for them, and carry her bags. We ended up at several high-end female clothing boutiques where I was literally the only man there, surrounded by some of the most beautiful and sexiest women I’ve ever seen. In one store, I saw a stunning young blonde woman step out of the dressing room wearing a tight, low-cut dress that was both extremely sexy and elegant simultaneously. She paired it with brown strappy gladiator sandals, giving me a clear view of her immaculate toes. She looked absolutely stunning and high-class; judging by how she spoke to the other woman she was with, I could tell she was a highly educated working professional. Needless to say, I began to strain in my cage, but since there was nowhere for that energy to go, my erection soon subsided. I started paying close attention to her choice of clothing and how it complemented her hair color, wondering what kind of person she is and where she planned to wear the outfit—a party perhaps?—things I used never to do before chastity. Before becoming chaste, I would have simply dismissed this woman as a dumb slut whose only purpose was satisfying my carnal desires. Chastity changed all that. My strong sexual desire for her, combined with how long I’d been chaste and the inability to masturbate, created a condition that forced me to view this woman exactly as she deserved to be viewed. I found myself admiring her beauty and several other characteristics, feeling an ever-growing sense of respect for her. It was then that it hit me: I realized I would never be able to masturbate to what I had just seen no matter how badly I wanted to, so I would have to learn to live with seeing beautiful women dressed sexily while only being allowed to view and admire them. It was sort of an epiphany for me, and I feel as though chastity is forcing me to grow as an individual like never before. I wanted to share this insight into the chaste male mind that perhaps some women practicing male chastity may have heard rarely or not at all. Chastity, it seems, is not merely a sexual desire or even a lifestyle; it can and usually evolves into a complete change in mindset regarding human sexuality and how it positively impacts not just how we view our keyholder, but also how we view and interact with all women in society. I’d be interested to hear what others think about this.