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Most of the gadgets discussed here serve as some form of restraint, built to block access with a strong emphasis on security. The goal is to keep the cock locked away so that only the keyholder can reach it. Often, the long-term plan involves emasculating the man, leaving him with pleasure available solely through his keeper. While I completely grasp the thrill and authority of exercising such total control, these standard devices don’t quite feel right for me.
Let me set out the circumstances that guided me toward a different route… When I wed my husband, I made sure to be open about having a long-term lesbian relationship and explained that I would occasionally have sex with my girlfriend. He accepted this arrangement without issue, and it didn’t harm our physical connection. Sometimes she stayed for a few days, and he seemed content sleeping in the spare room while my friend and I enjoyed ourselves. We managed well like this for years. One day after she left, I was cleaning up the spare bedroom when I spotted a crumpled photo in the bin. It took some effort to unstick it because cum had glued it together. When I finally smoothed it out, I saw it was a picture of my girlfriend that he had stroked over. To be honest, despite his patience and understanding all those years, I felt jealous—a deep, breath-stealing jealousy. Eventually, I settled down enough to weigh my choices. I thought about having him stay elsewhere when she visited but realized I’d constantly worry he was pleasing himself while thinking of her. I didn’t want to lose either of them. What I needed was for him to remain close and assured that his arousal wasn’t tied up in thoughts of her. So, I started looking into getting a device, imagining different scenarios to see if the jealousy would fade.
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