Female led relationships discussion

Hello all, I’ve got some gripes and hope you can help me out. I’m wearing a MM queens keep that holds me in place—sort of. Escaping isn’t too hard; the back is easy to slip open. It has been sent back for adjustments several times now, each time getting smaller and more uncomfortable.

Now down to a custom ring which feels slightly loose—it slips down enough so I can get out through the back easily. However, if I switch to a 1.5-inch small ring, my balls won’t pass through it when putting it on. My thought is that a split ring solves this issue, but MM doesn’t offer them directly. When I asked MM whether they’d attach a pin connecting a smaller split ring from Bon4 to their cage if I bought one separately, the answer was no.

My wife and I talked about getting pierced and purchasing a Lori device instead. But I don’t want yet another gadget unless this current one works out properly.

Has anyone else dealt with similar issues?