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This might be pretty standard, but I want to double-check. After being locked up for several weeks, my wife teasing me makes me get very hard, yet if she says it’s okay to cum, my erection drops and I have to think of ways to bring myself back or rely on her doing some of those kinky things that are known triggers for me.

When I don’t need to force an erection, it happens naturally. When I do need to focus on getting erect, I struggle with it. Is this just performance anxiety, or is it a result of holding control during chastity? My wife pointed out the other day after giving me a late orgasm that as soon as she gave permission, my hardness vanished and wondered why I always react like that.

Is this usual after weeks in lockup, or is it mostly psychological?

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