Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Everything went smoothly, as I anticipated and planned for. Last year my girlfriend and I parted ways permanently—quite a geographical hurdle!:) Long story but irrelevant here.

So, like most guys who are usually locked and denied, I soon got back to doing what comes naturally. Then in September, while tidying up some cupboards, I found my old CB6000s which I hadn’t worn for years since getting a Fort. I decided to give the old one another try for a bit. I’d forgotten how comfy it is. It’s much lighter than the Fort, and like that device, I barely notice it most of the time—helped by not being in a relationship.

I had been distracted for a while with various busy things: long hours, a new gym routine, no partner, etc. Before I knew it, Christmas was approaching, so I decided to make that my target for self-locking and denial. I hid the only key to the old lock somewhere out of easy reach outside working hours. Christmas came and went without release; New Year passed.

I gave myself another month. I was feeling horny in that satisfying way that happens after a period of denial. I really do like being there—it’s confusing but good. You want to cum, yet you also want to be denied just a bit longer. To avoid the flatness (which takes a little longer to recover from when single), well, I find it does. So I set my release date for the end of January. Then I pushed it out till Valentine’s Day—well, if you don’t love yourself!:).. But then that date felt a bit odd for a single bloke, so I thought I’d go longer. My birthday is in mid-March, so I’ll aim for that.

Before March even arrived it struck me: maybe the kids of my relatives talking about Shrove Tuesday (pancake day here in the UK) gave me an idea; I’ve never given anything up for Lent before, so why not? Another 40 days—well, 46 really. It’s a good target as any, but knowing it will be that long does make it quite the challenge.

I know and mostly understand why I enjoy being denied by (and especially for) a partner, and transitioning to self-denial when single is easy enough… after all, just because you are single doesn’t mean you can’t feel good. No intention of going permanent yet, but I already find myself thinking about the next target. By Easter it will have been 8 months; maybe I’ll go for 12. Looking that far ahead seems daunting, but I’ve done a full year before and, as I keep saying… it’s quite a lot easier to manage extended periods when you are not in a relationship and turned on constantly.

Ironically, when single and self-denying, I find I want to cum more often than when free. It’s probably the reality of being locked that turns me on so much.

Need to get back to something now or I won’t last!:)

But, the main point is; I was wondering; Does anyone else when single keep moving the goal-posts or am I just quirky? And what do others think of someone doing that?