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March 10, 2014 at 10:40 PM I finally found the courage to share my orgasm denial fetish with my partner today, and I wish I had done it years ago. Honestly, I feel like kicking myself because it went so smoothly—it was effortless. My wife and I have excellent sex, but she is the one who has mostly adapted while I hold onto most of our quirks. I’ve experimented with a few chastity devices when she wasn’t around, but never summoned up the bravery to show her mine. If this situation sounds familiar, keep reading. Tonight, I casually mentioned getting a new sex toy. Before I could explain what it was, she pulled out my cock and started stroking it. Then I presented the device (a stainless steel cage sourced from China) and showed how it works together. She seemed genuinely interested! By that point, fitting the cage back over my cock became impossible, so she tucked me into my pants and went off to let me put it on later, which I did. When I came back wearing it and offered her the keys, she snatched them up eagerly—truly—with the words “I could keep you locked forever”! Yes! It was almost too easy; I’m still reeling! We’ll definitely have sex tonight—I can feel it coming. She will probably let me out for intercourse, though my hope is that she gets comfortable with not letting me go. The only hiccup is that her most satisfying orgasms come from having my dick inside her. I hope to figure out a compromise. Meanwhile, everything aligns with the fantasy. This might mark the start of a new chapter in our lives—specifically regarding sex. I wanted to share this story because some of you are holding back due to fear or other reasons. Don’t let that stop you. Take heart and courage. I’m unsure how long this will last, but I’ll keep updating you.