Introductions discussion

I’m tony. I’d rather avoid ejaculating during intercourse or when touching myself, and I’ve been experimenting with prostate massage to assist in holding it back; it’s working somewhat but isn’t effortless yet. I’ve also checked out a chastity cage named the Holy Trainer. After reviewing numerous options over the past few months… this particular model appears to have an extended tube. So I figure I’m nearly ready to lock myself up. I suppose that’s why I joined here, not quite sure how to find someone who shares this interest and can assist me.