soft chastity devices

Greetings everyone. I figure I’m somewhat of a lurker here. For the past couple of years, I’ve been following various stories intermittently. I’ve also purchased and experimented with three or four inexpensive Temu cages; while I liked them, they didn’t hold up well before breaking, so I decided to upgrade slightly by trying out a silicone cobra device. Since I have nickel sensitivity, I’m cautious about metal options. With that settled, the main reason for my post is to ask a question. Does anyone care to share their pros and cons regarding a silicone chastity device? I am a single male who masturbates excessively. The concept of being locked up with control handed over to your partner really resonates with me. Reading stories from men who have been locked without orgasm for two or three weeks shows psychological and behavioral shifts toward their KH that are impressive—it makes me think I need to find a woman ready to take charge. Thanks.