pain beneath the scrotum while using a chastity device for several days

“Hi there! I identify as a sissy and really like the idea of using chastity to stop myself from touching, since my desire seems to fade after ejaculation.

I’ve tried wearing cages several times before and have purchased around four or five different ones. However, I never managed to keep any on for very long because I always end up with pain right under my scrotum where the ring sits. It’s more than just general discomfort; I try to wear them even when it hurts, but the issue worsens over time. My English isn’t perfect so I might not explain this clearly.

I’m hoping someone here can help me figure out how to wear a cage for extended periods without that pain, particularly in the area beneath my balls—it’s quite severe.

I also have some other questions: What is the best type of cage for easy urination? That’s another big issue for me. Again, I struggle with expressing myself perfectly in English, but I hope you get what I mean.

If needed, I can post photos of my current cages and try to explain exactly what I don’t like about them.

I’m also curious about catheters. I have no idea which ones are safe or unsafe, but it interests me.

Lastly, where should I look for luxury or high-quality chastity cage? There are many online stores out there, though they all seem somewhat similar to each other.

Sorry if this is in the wrong section!”